How To Transform Your Toxic Relationship into A Healthy One?

We all want that someone special with whom we can share our different levels of emotions without even hesitating for a second. How many of you think that parting ways from each other is the only solution for getting out of toxic relationships? Toxic relationships are hard to handle, but still, you can instill life in them by following these tips:

1. Communication is the key

We find it too convenient to keep our emotions deep inside our hearts. But sadly, it will only damage your relationships and that too very conveniently. Tell him what bothers you the most, what makes you lose your calm on certain things, and you’ll start observing improvements in the meanwhile.

1. Build your trust premises’ right

Do you suffer from big-time trust issues? Is your insecure behavior impairing your love-life? Building trust between each other takes time, and to set its foundation right, you need not fret away from sharing things that may matter or not to your partner. After all, it takes less time to build trust, but it takes almost a lifetime to retain it.

1. Spend time with your friends and family

Now, you must be wondering what the heck friends and family have to do with our relationship? Spending time with them will help you in identifying the persons who are really worth your time. You’ll create a powerful group of persons who stick to you, and guide you in the most difficult situations.

1. Jot down your views somewhere

If you’re a technology freak, write down your notions on smartphone or laptop. If you’re more of a diary person, jot them down there. Whenever you guys have separate opinions about something, penning them down will help. It’ll make you realize that it’s not mandatory to have same opinion about everything, just because you’re in love.

1. Know about your partner’s past

Every person has a story. If the mere thought of separation from her gives you chills, try knowing about her background story. Ask anything you want to, and if some of her responses astonish you, feel free to ask more about it. This exercise, if correctly done, will promote mutual understanding and respect between you two.

1. Give yourself the space you deserve

When you are only thinking about your partner 24*7, chances are high that you forget about yourself. If you want to see a better version of your relationship, you need to spare some time for things that excite you. Meditate, go for a movie alone, spend time with your pets, or do anything that rejuvenates your inner self.

1. Rule less and love more

If either of you rule over the other, you should stop being proud of it. Replace ‘I’ with ‘Us’. Give your partner the freedom to express her thoughts, listen to her, and tell her that she holds equal importance in this relationship.

1. If nothing works, talk to a relationship expert

It’s rare to see, but sometimes, the furious conditions are beyond the control of love birds. You don’t want to work on it, but at the same time, you aren’t ready to leave each other. In such cases, you should knock the door of an authenticated relationship counselor. The earlier you act, the more fruitful it is.

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